We see many people coming and going in our day to day life.But some people make an impression on you so you will never ever forget them in your life time.In the last one year,I have met so many people and made friends But there is one friend whom i felt is very close to me and i feel very lucky to be friends with her.
Why am i writing a blog about a friend?? I think jus to express how special she is to me as she is preparing to leave to UK for her higher studies in a month.She might not be back to India in not less than 4 years and 4 years of time..Its very long according to me..
I remember when she joined the team which also is placed in same workspace where i was.I first thought her to be a very Hi-Fi sorta girl with whom i could not find anything in common between us.But I was proved wrong..We just said a Hi and bye for a first few months..It was Ruby on Rails that made us talk to each other more.She had been to b’lore for some 2 months when she was asked to work in Rails.It happened so she pinged me with some doubts in Rails from there,our talking,chatting,calling over phone all started.Thanks To RAILS…
Then I was surprised to find that she is such a sweet girl and most importantly we both had the same wavelength…Actually almost everytime we both thought alike in every context…She is so much pretty and i admire her smile and her dressing skills…I dont think if there would be anybody else who would have such matching accessories for every dress she wore… And she has got a Lot Lot friends..In fact who would hesitate to be friends with such a beautiful,intelligent and caring gal..We started sharing everything that happens at home,office with each other..Now that she is gonna leave the country,I am very much happy for her But at the same time,I am sure its gonna be tough time for me to miss such a good friend.I never used to be in office after 6 in the evening..But i loved to spend time with her,that i now work till she leaves..Good for the Company as well
She taught me many things.I was ignorant on many things and i am sure ppl will tease like ‘you don know even this aah’ if they find ppl don know a thing which they know..But She was so very friendly that she explains me what it is..Although i help her in the programming part,i don see any responsibility for her to share all her thoughts with me…
Both are alike in many things..Both look very bold in the outside but actually we are scared of many things(almost everything)…She had one great desire at the work place..Though she is trying hard,she is not able to make it work..I pray God that whatever she had wished and she wishes should come true..
Aahn i forgot one thing..She is gonna do her PHD in completely zero pounds and she is also getting a stipend from which she can even save some pounds…She had waited very very long and the wait had been so stressful and confusing to her whether like she was making a correct decision on her carreer…But everything has ended so well and now that she is gonna fly to London to return back as a Doctorate..
I turn so emotional to think about the day she quits from the office.I am not sure what sort of feelings i would have…But from the bottom of my heart i am saying..KAVIN,You are one of the best friends I have got..I always treasure you as one of the most important persons in my life..I will Miss U…
All the Best Kavin..All you distant dreams will become true one day and you will shine like a star…
This is your friend Charanya signing off now with a heavy heart
Charanya, Thank you soo much for writing about my BESSST friend. My first impression was also like yours. I thought of her as a HI-FI girl.. oh god how wrong we have been.. There is nothing we have not discussed about and there will be nothing in the future too.. MISSING YOU KAVIN!!!!Once again thank you Charanya..
Aarthi..U need not thank me at all dear ..Kavin is such a good friend,that she deserves such a post…See now she has indirectly given an intro for both of us…
Nice article Mam. No worries. World is too small and you are not going to miss her completely … we have our 1. Mobile phones 2. internet instant messages 3. social networking sites like facebook, twitter, orkut …. etc,. Convey my best wishes to Kavin (Ph.D) …
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Hi Charanya.
Thank you so much for this write up about kavin..She, Arti and I have been the besssssssssssst friend from 2004..and ever since life has always been beautiful and full of fun..like arti said our first impression was also like yours..but we were totally wrong.. !
she has seen a lot of unwanted unfortunate things…so good that she is getting what she wanted..!! arti and i are extreeeeeeeeeeeeeemly happy for her..!!
thanks charanya for sharing this with us..
Kavin…arti and I miss you so much around..especially everytime we call each other and talk..try and migrate to the US